Month: March 2010

Your achievements are stepping stones.

Earlier this month, I was listening to Phill Jupitus co-presenting a breakfast show on student radio.  I was listening out of curiosity.

photo by Andy McMillan

photo by Andy McMillan

Lucky I did tune in, because I also got to hear Jupitus in conversation with James Ricci, president of Bournemouth University Students’ Union.

Ricci mentioned that being involved in SU and university activities is helpful to a graduate CV in an age when a degree alone isn’t qualification enough to enter the job market convincingly.

He’s absolutely right.  So many people go to uni now that you have to do more than pass a degree course for employers to show an interest.

You don’t have to be president of a Students’ Union in order for your CV to shine, but you do need to show your achievements over the course of your degree.  Yes, you studied for a few years, but what else did you do?

Even accounting for the hours spent on independent study, there’s a lot of time left over.  Take away regular (but not TOO regular) leisure time and there should still be room to stand out.  Whatever your subject is.

By ‘stand out’, I don’t mean like a sore thumb.  Not unless that’s one of your endearing qualities…!

You should volunteer, participate in activities, have stories that identify you as a unique person, and so on.  Through this, you’ll notch up various successes worthy of mention.

Success isn’t limited to gold medallists, elected SU officers, student leaders, and so on.  Any achievement is a stepping stone that you should be proud of.  Possible achievements and activities worth mentioning include:

  • Clubs/Societies you’ve joined;
  • Clubs/Societies you’ve made a difference in;
  • Clubs/Societies you’ve helped set up yourself
  • Part-time employment;
  • Online achievements that you founded, such as non-personal blogs, websites, professional networks, etc.;
  • Sporting achievements;
  • Voluntary stints;
  • Uni events you assisted in (paid or not);
  • Senior Student and outreach roles;
  • Charity work;
  • Relevant trade associations & professional groups you’re an active member of;
  • Campaigns you played a part in (unless controversial);
  • Personal hobbies & activities that go beyond casual interest (unless controversial 😛 ).

Three achievements stand out in particular in my own student past:

  1. I was elected a Final Year Representative;
  2. I was a Senior Student for a year;
  3. I was a founding member of an English Society.

I mention these not because I did them for my CV.  I’ll be honest, I wasn’t thinking much about it at the time.  I did these things because I wanted to.

The student representative position was mentioned in passing to me.  It sounded interesting and I felt it would enable me to see (and act) ‘behind the scenes’, as well as speaking on behalf of fellow students.  The Senior Student position was a paid position and it helped me take up something more relevant, useful and exciting to me than a part-time job.  It also meant I could live on campus on my final year with Freshers.  I got to experience the first year again AND tuck in to my dissertation.  Win!  As for the English Society, my Academic Advisor suggested it to me and a few friends.  We liked the idea, so we started the ball rolling.  It wasn’t huge at first, but we managed minor successes, and the society grew in subsequent years.  If it wasn’t for an initial push, there would have been nothing.

So I can mention these achievements to highlight various responsibilities and actions, yet the intention wasn’t just to look better on paper.  You’re either in a position where you’ve already got some achievements worth mentioning, or you’ve got the time to experience more before you graduate.

What could you mention?  Think hard.  Something you may not consider an achievement may be more important than you think.  If you’re still left struggling, it’s not too late.  Start building a portfolio of achievements today.  As I said just a couple of posts ago, “You have the power to stretch out wherever you want“.

You or ‘everyone else’?

Just because “everyone else does it” doesn’t mean you should join in.

It may be ‘everyone‘ around you drinking heavily and partying regularly, it may be ‘everyone‘ procrastinating on purpose, it may be ‘everyone‘ moaning about the state of the course without actively trying to change things.  Whatever you see ‘everyone‘ doing, don’t be afraid to make your own decision and do something else.  Your different attitude probably won’t be noticed.

photo by AndYaDontStop

photo by AndYaDontStop

Shunning the popular choice may be difficult and uncomfortable.  Doubly so if your decision means giving up something you enjoy or challenging yourself to work harder.  So long as you don’t give up anything important, it’s fine to forego the odd social outing or escapade.  You may even be indulging in too many entirely respectable activities.  Do you really need to be an active member of 7 societies, volunteer for 2 causes, keep down a part-time job, and try to stay on top of study?

While you shouldn’t feel obliged to defend your decisions, there will be the odd time when someone does question your actions.  Usually it doesn’t take more than thanking a person for their advice and quickly moving away from the conversation.  On the (very) rare occasion you face greater questioning, stay strong and don’t be afraid to point out why you’ve chosen a particular direction.  If you aren’t getting anywhere, if you feel uncomfortable talking about it, or if you don’t want to justify your actions to someone else, politely explain that you don’t want to discuss it further and (if necessary) physically move away from the situation.

Peer pressure has many faces.  A small percentage is uncalled for and something you don’t need from so-called ‘mates’.  Fortunately, much of it is friendly and of little consequence.  That’s why you probably have nothing to fear when you choose not to do what everybody else is doing.

It feels so much easier to let others make decisions for you.  If it goes wrong, you’ve got someone else to blame.  The truth is that when you make your own decisions, you begin to feel more in touch with what you truly want and need.  Don’t fear that you’ll become arrogant.  You should still listen to others, engage in debate, and appreciate that you’re not always right.  With that, the confidence in your decisions does help you grow stronger, getting you to think more clearly and independently before making commitments.

How have you moved away from an otherwise popular situation?  Have you taken a different attitude and found it worked to your advantage?

What will you do today?

What will you do today?  What will you do to shine?  What will you do to innovate?  What will you do to bring you closer to whatever it is you want?

I don’t know what you want, but I know a lot of things are within reach.  They’re just hiding most of the time.  Makes the game interesting…

My personal aim on this blog is to encourage all of you to take control of what’s at your disposal and use it well.  No need to hurt others, no need to become a workaholic, no need to be unethical.

But no matter how hard I try to help and no matter how many people get to view this website, only a handful of people are ever going to take it all the way.  It doesn’t matter how many people offer their advice to help others make a difference, only a small number will give their all and create their own pile of win.

Are you one of that small number?  Are you an innovator?

Why do only a relative few manage to shine?  Some possibilities:

  • Other aspects of life (big and small) get in the way;
  • Not everyone develops (or recognises) a true passion for anything;
  • There seems too much initial work to be bothered;
  • Fear of failure / Not prepared to take a risk;
  • You want to succeed, but give up when gratification doesn’t come quickly.

People give all sorts of reasons why they haven’t managed to go the whole way.  Some are good reasons and some are just excuses.  I bet they all feel like good reasons at the time.

Uni gives you access to so many resources that it’s crazy.  No matter how small your institution is, you can enjoy a wealth of goodness without moving off campus.

And with so many digital tools at our disposal, you’re able to push your own brand without having to ask for anyone else’s permission.  You have the power to stretch out wherever you want.  The Internet and mobile technology isn’t just for reading what people are doing, discussing last night, building a farm or joining the mafia!

“Let yourself experience life with your eyes and heart and mind wide open.”
Robbin – Brains On Fire

I’m not suggesting that all you need to do to succeed is to believe in what’s possible and keep trying again and again (and again) until you’ve won.  It’s not that simple and it’s not practical.

But that doesn’t mean you should give up and not bother at all.  Many successful entrepreneurs succeed amid many of their failures.  They won’t dwell on the failures.  In fact, the failures will soon be forgotten except for:

  • The knowledge that they’re a step closer to finding another success;
  • The lessons they’ve learned that will hold them in better stead for their next venture.

Nothing is guaranteed and nothing is certain, but the only way you can find out what’s possible is to start doing stuff. Do it now!  Sure, you shouldn’t just run off without due caution and with no plan whatsoever, but you do need to begin somewhere.

After all, you’ll never find the perfect circumstances to suit your personal situation.  You’re in a better position where you are than if you wait until you’re somewhere else.

You’ve got more chances than you probably think.  But you’ve got to take them.  Don’t waste it away.  I missed plenty opportunities simply because I didn’t know better.  It’s a mistake I try not to repeat on a regular basis.  It happens sometimes, but I’d rather slip up occasionally and get back up than sit on my bum and do nothing at all.

What will you do today?

EduLinks – Wikis, Politics & Common Sense

Top 10 Interview Tips – Times Online

It’s never too soon to think about how you’re going to shine in that interview.  Some solid tips here.

Half-a -dozen Monkeys – 5 Tasks That Should Not Be On Your To Do List

If you want to read some funny, clear and direct advice about your to do list, look no further.  Rich has written an awesome post.  Put it on your to do list to read!

StudentSpeak – Daring to disconnect from social media (Video)

How would you feel without Facebook?  Could you be tempted away from Twitter?  How long would you last?  See how long two students lasted when they tried to shy away from the social networks.

Campus Technology – 8 in 10 Students Turn to Wikipedia for Research

…But it’s mainly just to get started.  So long as you do it in moderation and use plenty other starting points as well, there’s not so much harm in that.

Finding Dulcinea – Top 10 Reasons Students Cannot Cite or Rely on Wikipedia

I say there’s not much harm in using Wikipedia as a starting point, but be warned!  For a fantastic set of reasons why you shouldn’t trust everything you read on Wikipedia, read this piece.  It’ll make you think twice.

From Student Direct – Decisions, decisions

“…in the Western world despite unprecedented material wealth, the majority of people are less happy than they were 50 years ago. There is too much choice, and because of this people struggle to uncover who they are and what they stand for.”

PickTheBrain – How to Stick to Your Study Plan

6 ways to a state of win.

From University of East Anglia – Young people, politics and popular culture

“If popular culture is to be used to engage young people in politics, it is crucial that young people are taken seriously as experienced consumers of media culture. This means taking their concerns and experiences seriously, but without packaging them in simplistic and patronising ways.”

Developing Stuff – Using Microsoft Word for long documents

Stu Johnson has put together a great resource that helps you easily deal with all sorts of matters in long documents.  Covering formats, tables of contents, automated processes, figures, captions, and a lot more.  The main document can be accessed directly here.

BBC News – Universities look into the future

The future looks very different.  And it may not be that far away…

The Simpler Life – 3 reasons we like to read common sense advice

One comment stands out in a massive way:

“Common sense is common.  Applying common sense is very rare.”

Remember this. It’s a hugely important point.