Look back five or ten years. How different were you back then? Probably a lot.
It’s no wonder that we look back on our past work and flinch at some of the stuff we did and said. Especially in public forum, like online, changes in opinion look more like contradictions if you’re not careful. Old blog posts or tweets where you make one argument will look strange–weak, even–when you write something new and argue the opposite thing.
But this is natural. Perspective changes.
“A major challenge for me is that, in spending a lot of time learning, my opinions grow with time. Hopefully my minor reversals and shifts in emphasis don’t irk or confuse longtime readers too much.” – Scott Young
I would be more worried if I didn’t feel challenged and if I didn’t sense any kind of development as time passed.
Plus, I like to consider other people’s perspective. Don’t live in a bubble. Explore views that aren’t your own.
For instance, I have offered advice in the past that I wouldn’t use myself, but that I knew would be useful to others. The type of information that I’ve seen others thrive off, despite it leaving me cold.
Why? Because I don’t assume that only my choices bear fruit. Especially when giving subjective advice. One size does not fit all.
That’s why, if I give two opposing pieces of advice, it could look misleading at first glance. On further reflection, the contradiction may highlight two perfectly valid options that require a choice (or exploration) on your part.
As with my previous post on planning your day, I suggested options to play with. And I regularly ask questions like, “What works best for you?” so the discussion can continue. The more we join in with offering and exploring new solutions, the greater the chance that we uncover even more treasures.
Don’t sweat the change. We all do it, though we don’t always notice it.
What has been your biggest change so far?