A month ago, I wrote that “Gen-Y is a term to debate, not mould into a definitive shape”.
Here’s another interesting take on position within a ‘generation’, courtesy of Jessica Miller-Merrell:
“The idea and use of creating labels like generational labels and categorizing those around us has been a characteristic of human beings since the beginning of time. […]
“Instead of labeling one another, I encourage a different and unorthodox approach, human interaction, engagement, and good old fashioned conversations with your employees, friends, customers, peers, or whomever. Of course my impressions could be due to the fact that I’m a Gen XY and Cusper myself. At 32 years old, I’m essentially an inbetween who is often mis-labeled and mis-understood…Cuspers like myself feel extremely comfortable being uncomfortable. Being inbetween and feeling as an outsider to your own generational label among other things is normal.”
Who chooses which generation you should be plumped with? You can’t choose and neither can anyone else.
Your generation lasts a lifetime. But it will take longer than a lifetime to work out what that generation is called.
When you speak and when you’re presenting yourself, it’s common to worry about what people think. But your audience is not looking for you to slip up. They are paying attention, but not how you think:
“The audience is trying to determine what their relationship is with you. Can they trust you? Will you listen to them and understand where they’re coming from? Is this relationship worth their time and money?
“Your job on stage is to connect, relate, and deliver. You don’t have to be like your audience to do so, but you do have to be compatible with what your audience expects from a speaker in the general sense, and with what the audience is looking for specific to your topic.”
I think the same can be said when you meet new people. You may not be up on stage, but people are trying to fit you in to their lives.
“My degree in archaeology from Durham University seems unimpressive on paper, three years with a mountain of debt snowballing out of control and a degree that was not conducive to employment in journalism, a market that is furiously competitive out of recession let alone in it. This, however, is a gross misinterpretation as the common saying ‘Don’t let your degree get in the way of your education’ rings very true in my case.”
A great little piece well worth spending 3 minutes on. You’ll be respected not for the answers you give, but for the questions you ask…
JP Rangaswami’s life was turned around when a teacher told him that he would be respected not for the answers he gave, but for the questions he asked. Rangaswami suggests, “An intelligent answer you can give half-asleep. An intelligent question requires at least one eye open”. He also says that “Words like ‘success’ and ‘failure’ are wasting time”.
Enjoy highlighting in your books and course guides? Now you can use a highlighter on web pages, make notes, send your annotated pages to classmates, and all sorts. There’s even a helpful bookmarklet for instant access and a Firefox addon for even more functionality. Hat tip to @jennifermjones for this EduLink.
Education Secretary, Michael Gove, wants A-level students to return to more ‘deep thought’ so they are better prepared for university. But what is deep thought? To find out, we’ll have to think deep.
Today, our number of weak-tie acquaintances has exploded via online social networking. “You couldn’t maintain all of those weak ties on your own,” says Jennifer Golbeck at the University of Maryland in College Park, who studies our use of social media. “Facebook gives you a way of cataloguing.” The result? It’s now significantly easier for the school friend you haven’t seen in years to feed you a bit of information that changes your behaviour, from a recommendation of a low-cholesterol breakfast cereal to a party invite where you meet the love of your life.
The explosion of weak ties could have profound consequences for our social structures too, says Judith Donath of the Berkman Center for Internet and Society at Harvard University, who studies the various ways we communicate using social media. One thing that limited the size of traditional social groups was the time it took to form reliable and trustworthy ties, she says. Online tools have changed that, helping each of us to build a social “supernet”: a network of easily accessible contacts that is bigger than any we have ever been able to manage. “It would be impossible to maintain 500 or 5000 ties without it,” she says. “We’re already seeing changes.” For example, many people now turn to their social networks ahead of sources such as newspapers or television, because their acquaintances provide them with more trusted and relevant news, information or recommendations. However, Donath believes more should be done to maintain privacy and trust in the networking tools.
There are hardly any Vice-Chancellors on Twitter. Mario, understandably, wonders why.
The benefits of a VC joining Twitter far outweigh the drawbacks. An account lets them be personal, engaging, accessible, and helpful. All for a few tweets a day and having to respond to a few quick queries in 140 characters.
I recently wrote about the graduate earning premium and how I’m sceptical of the concept, especially in the long term. IntoUniversity highlights further evidence in support.
We do a lot of stuff that could be done better, or shouldn’t be done at all. Who’d have thought you just need to tie those shoelaces in the other direction…
Your eyelids are growing heavy. You can’t keep your eyes open. Sleep will be upon you soon.
Must…Stay…Awake…
Can’t…
Zzzzzzzzzzzzzz
We’ve all been there. But what can you do to help stay awake and (in most cases) stay alert? Here are 17 top tips for you:
original photo by Cassidy Curtis
Move – Staying in the same place for ages doesn’t help. Get up and dance around, jump up and down, shake your arms and legs all over the place. If you’re in public then, of course, do it twice as enthusiastically. 😉
Powernap – There are usually two choices: fight the sleep or go to sleep. Taking a quick powernap is the third, most beneficial, answer.
Change what you’re doing frequently – The longer you spend on a task, the more danger you’re in of drifting off. Any jobs that aren’t totally exciting or engaging are going to send your thoughts elsewhere from time to time. Don’t get to the point where your head crashes to your desk and you knock yourself out. Find a different task to refresh you for a moment. Return to the less exciting task when you’ve recovered.
Remember to eat – You will feel lethargic if you don’t eat enough. Feed as you work. Have something nearby so you remember. Or set an alarm when it’s time to think about food.
Get talking or singing (exercise the vocal chords) – Who doesn’t love the sound of their own voice? Okay, that’s not what’s going to keep you awake…however, a break from silence can be enough to rouse you back into a more awakened state. Belt out a song and see the world with sparkle once more!
Change the lighting – Open the curtains, turn up the light, switch on a lamp, move to a brighter area. Or reduce the glare, if necessary (can’t have you squinting either).
Go outside – Have a walk, sit on the grass, look to the sky, breathe in the (possibly) clean air. If possible, find a place that’s full of trees and fields and lots of green. What’s stopping you from working outside?
Have a drink – Fatigue comes about when you’re low on fluids and dehydrating. Grab a refreshing drink. Especially a cold one. And preferably water.
Do some free association writing – Go crazy and churn out a whole load of rubbish from your head. Let it all out. Just write or type or speak whatever comes into your head. When you’ve been sat there, waiting for inspiration, the flow can stop and you get tired with it. Churning out anything, no matter how weird, will soon wake you up again.
Self-harm – Not as brutal as it sounds…a quick pinch to the back of your hand can help you refocus.
Do something new or risky – The basic idea here is to reignite your senses. By risky, I mean something that you feel slightly uncomfortable doing…I don’t mean you should act dangerously!
Do sudoku – Give yourself a mental boost by working on a puzzle. Crosswords, logic problems, sudoku, anything to get your mind racing. Make sure it’s not too difficult or too easy, otherwise you may start wandering again.
Splash your face with cold water
Wash your hands with cold water – Can’t deal with splashing your face? Cold water on your hands is the next best thing.
Move away from what’s affecting you – Sometimes you’ve just had enough and need a quick break. You know the times when you know you’re not tired, but you’re still fighting sleep? You must finish something but your body won’t let you. Taking just a 5-10 minute break may be enough to let you get back to what you’re meant to be doing.
Find company – If you’re on your own and finding it difficult to concentrate, seek out other people. They may distract you from the work too, but since you were already being distracted…
Make time to sleep properly – When faced with a need to stay up longer than usual, or when you’re neglected sleep for a few days, promise yourself that well-earned recovery sleep as soon as possible. If you go a few days on little sleep, spend the next few days trying to regulate things again.
Let us know what tips you have in the comments. I’m sure you’ve got snore more!